How to Host Thanksgiving

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Feeling overwhelmed with the thought of hosting Thanksgiving? I am here to help! After hosting Thanksgiving for over 20 years, I have gathered my best tips that will help you stay organized, cook with confidence, and actually sit down to enjoy your holiday meal.

With my printable checklist, easy Thanksgiving menu, and go-to tips, hosting Thanksgiving is not only manageable, but dare I say, enjoyable.

Sliced turkey, cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes dishes out on a plate with roasted turkey in the background with title text that reads, 14 expert tips for a stress-free thanksgiving.

How to Host a Stress-Free Thanksgiving

While some things (like an unexpected guest or the dinner conversation) are out of your control, these tips are designed to help set you up for success and ensure Thanksgiving goes as smoothly as possible.

Tip #1: Make a Plan

When it comes to Thanksgiving, the earlier you start planning, the smoother everything will go. Planning ahead lets you tackle tasks in small chunks instead of facing a last-minute marathon that makes the day feel incredibly overwhelming.

Does the thought of creating a plan feel overwhelming? I have done the heavy lifting for you. Grab my detailed checklist and simply work through it. And while ideally, I suggest to start tackling hosting Thanksgiving 3 weeks ahead of time, don't panic if you are coming in late, simply adjust the timeline as needed.

Side by side photos of printable Thanksgiving Checklist to make hosting easy.

Tip #2: Confirm your Guest List (and Their Travel Plans)

It sounds simple, but nailing down your guest list early helps with everything, from how big a turkey you need to how many plates to set to whether or not you need to make up the guest room. I have learned from experience, it is better to ask than to assume.😉

👉🏻Food Allergies? After your guests confirm their plans, follow up to check to see if there are any food allergies or dietary restrictions you may need to accommodate.

Tip #3: Plan the Menu

Gather your family's favorite must-have recipes or browse my Thanksgiving recipes and Instant Pot Thanksgiving recipes for inspiration.

👉🏻Important to Remember: You do not need to make everything. Focus on a few favorites done well, and if you are comfortable delegating, let guests bring a side or dessert to share.

Tip #4: Shop Wisely

Once your menu is set, write down every ingredient you will need. Cross off what you already have on hand, then separate the rest into non-perishables and perishables.

👉🏻Start Early. Start shopping early for non-perishables-stores run out fast. That extra time also gives you wiggle room if something's out of stock (instead of last minute panic runs the night before).

Tip #5: Create a Timeline

My Thanksgiving Checklist includes a rough timeline, but detail is key to a stress-free Thanksgiving. Take the time to make a timeline that includes when to thaw your turkey, how long to cook the turkey, and how long it will take you to warm or cook your side dishes.

👉🏻Edit if Needed: If you are looking at your timeline and realize that you won't have the space in the oven to accomplish everything at once (and it can't be prepped ahead), consider skipping it or using an alternative cooking method--like say, crockpot mashed potatoes INSTEAD of mashed potato casserole.

Tip #6: Pay Attention to the Turkey

In order to make your turkey the star of Thanksgiving, follow a few key tips. Order a fresh turkey if possible, use my easy turkey brine to keep it moist and flavorful, and follow my foolproof guide for roasting your turkey.

👉🏻How much Turkey Per Person? Plan on 1 pound of turkey per person to ensure a generous feast with leftovers. Because we all want leftovers!

Roasted turkey on white platter served with fresh apple slices on a bed of fresh herbs with mashed potatoes and cranberry sauce in background.

Tip #7: Get a Jump Start on Side Dishes

Plenty of sides freeze beautifully. You can opt to prepare and freeze homemade applesauce, cranberry sauce, and even sweet potato casserole up to a month in advance.

👉🏻No Time To Freeze? Even if you only have a couple days to work with, you can prepare a lot in advance. Think salad dressings, corn casserole, mashed potato casserole, broccoli cheese rice casserole, rolls, and more! I have a whole list of Make-Ahead Thanksgiving recipes to help.

Tip #8: Bake and Freeze Desserts

Desserts like pumpkin pie, apple pie, and pumpkin roll can be made up to a month in advance and frozen. This frees up your time and oven space as well!

👉🏻Defrost in Time: Thaw desserts overnight in the refrigerator before serving. Serve cold or warm up while you eat dinner to enjoy your holiday meal.

Tip #9: Stock Up on Supplies

Ensure you have proper serving dishes, cups, plates, servingware, and flatware. Also be sure that you have toilet paper, paper towels, napkins, etc on hand for a smooth holiday.

👉🏻No Guilt Allowed! If you are hosting a crowd, don't hesitate to use disposable plates or foil pans for sides. The fewer dishes, the better your night ends.

Tip #10: Choose Your Baking Dishes Wisely

Use square or rectangular baking dishes instead of round or oval ones. They fit together better in the oven (and the fridge), maximizing space. It's a small change that makes a big difference when you're juggling six things at once.

Tip #11: Set the Table the Night Before

If you won't be using the dining table the morning of Thanksgiving, set it the after dinner the night before. It is one less thing to do on the big day.

👉🏻Delegate It! This is a great task to give your spouse, kids, or overnight guest. One less thing for you to do, while involving the whole family.

Table set with thanksgiving placemats, plates, silverware, name cards, and flowers.

Tip #12: Don't Forget Appetizers & Beverages

Hungry guests get cranky fast. Have a few easy appetizers ready, like a turkey fruit platter, stuffed mushrooms, or a cheese board. Pair it with mulled wine or crockpot mulled cider to keep everyone happy while the turkey finishes up.

Tip #13: Don't be Afraid to Take a Few Shortcuts

Homemade is wonderful, but sanity matters more. Store-bought rolls? Go for it. Pre-chopped salad mix? Bless whoever invented it. And I have it on good authority, Costco sells a delicious pumpkin pie😉

Tip #14: Have a Plan for Leftovers

Have plenty of containers ready (the cheap ones you don't mind sending home). Label, pack, and share.

👉🏻Don't Want a Boring Turkey Sandwich? Bookmark my favorite leftover Thanksgiving recipes that will put your leftovers to delicious NEW use.

I hope these tips and recipes help you feel calm, confident, and ready to actually enjoy Thanksgiving this year. Because hosting should feel special, not stressful. xo, Kristen

About Kristen Chidsey

Kristen is a wife, busy mom of two, and creator of A Mind "Full" Mom. From breakfast to dinner to dessert, it is her passion to share tried-and-true recipes that are big on flavor, made with easy-to-find ingredients, and family-approved!

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6 Comments

  1. I am no stranger to hosting large family dinners but your tips are concise and practical. Thanks for those and all the wonderful recipes.

  2. Hi! I used your tips for Thanksgiving last year and they were a tremendous help to me. It was my first time hosting my family and I was pretty stressed. Everyone looking for help coordinating their Thanksgiving meal should check out your tips! Thank you for this post!
    Best regards and Happy Thanksgiving
    Linda L.
    Santa Rosa CA

      1. Hi, I really enjoy your tips and suggestions. I have taken your timeline and incorporated it into my own list. One thing I would add to the list/timeline is an after the dinner maybe the next day or two to write down what worked and what we could improve for next year or for Christmas. I do enjoy your meal planning and suggestions.

      2. Thank you, Tim! I love that you found these tips helpful and I appreciate you sharing your own advice for making notes for next year--super smart!